“Just be yourself”. How often have you had that said to you and wonders who is this person really asking me to be? My real self, or their ideal idea of me?
Being yourself is supposed to be easy; after all it is what you are. The truth is it not. Try looking on the internet for the definition of self and see how complicated and different the explanations are.
It makes you wonder why when all you really want to know is how to be true to the self, the ‘me’ you feel inside.
Why The Desire To Know?
A lot of people feel unfulfilled in their lives and somehow feel they have missed something somewhere. Well when you think about it, it does seem to make sense.
We live in the wealthiest times in history:
- Living standards in the North America and most of Europe have skyrocketed six-fold in the past century.
- We work fewer hours a week than our great-grandparents did and enjoy more leisure time than they had.
Yet;
- A greater percentage of people commit suicide than they did in 1900.
- Clinical depression rates are ten times what they were in 1945 during World War II.
We seem to have so much yet many of us are unhappy and unfulfilled. It is why more and more people are looking for straight forward strategies to help discover ‘the self’ and uncover their purpose in life .
Find The Self Yourself
There is a great deal of data on the web, I would thusly exhort some data education. Be centered around the reason you need to locate that free self that is and has dependably been you.
Judge anything you will read, see and hear will by regardless of whether they resounding with, or stir something unique in you. Try not to stress in the event that you are not ready to portray these inclination simply acknowledge them if the your genuine self associate.
It is like you are living as materially poor person when there is account in your name with 100 million it. Most people would do whatever they can to get access to it once they found it exists.
Remember, the self that lies within you is a prize no money in the world can buy. Many have died without ever realizing what they had and could have enjoyed: the joy of Being.
What is the real self?
You are a unique, magnificent human being: a child of the universe. Imagine, with the 6.6 billion people on the planet today, there is no other like you.
The fact that you asking questions about the real self is a sign that you are having a major breakthrough to realizing your nature perfectly!!!!
Somehow thinking about the ‘real self’ implies that ‘fake self.’ With it comes the uncomfortable thought and feeling that the life you are leading is more ‘fake self’ than ‘real self.’
I have to admit that finding "me" time is never easy. We lead such busy lives that it seems difficult if not impossible to find time to nurture the parts of yourself that make you, you.
There are always things we “have to do” and soon forget about the things that fulfill us most and define us. We then define ourselves by these things which make the desire to finding the self even harder. Why?
Illusion Of Self
Your entire reality is based on an illusory sense of who you are . The mind constructed self thinks that the source of ‘the self’ outside yourself. Which of course it is not, it is part of who you already are.
The Self And Your Thoughts
I genuinely trust that the energy of our musings and how these then convert into reality ought to be educated in school. It very baffling to be longing for something however some way or another drawing in the very things you don't need.
At the point when your brain is loaded with negative musings, you are isolating yourself from the full articulation of the innovative power inside you. It resembles you are living in an egg shell when you can break out and turn out to be increasingly, greater and completely you.
Accessing The Real Self?
As I said before, letting your real self shine though is a process of dis-illusionment. This is personal thing, there is no fixed time in a anyone’s life to begin this process. Some gain accesses to their real being late, some early; some get it all at once and sadly, some never do.
The secret to finding the real you is that you have to want to. You have to have a real longing to find why you life doesn’t feel complete. You would have discovered that self-indulgence is not the answer and it is not all about you.
Universal Law
Just like when astronauts were planning to the moon, they had to thoroughly understand the universal law of gravity etc. It is the same with journey of self discovery.
It is enough to know that there are some laws which govern a person’s awakening to know themselves. You have to learn how they work and how you can use them to attract the things that fulfils the need of the real you.
Challenges To Accessing The Self
I have just said the molded personality characterized self however another enormous impediment is culture as well as family. Everybody lives in a particular culture where certain practices, even appearances are not just expected, they really are requested.
Like the vast majority, you invest lion's share of your energy around individuals and they all have certain desires of you. You are compelled to act in ways which are in opposition to who you truly are and we as a whole know how that feels.
With regards to family and companions, you feel obliged to accommodate inspired by a paranoid fear of dismissal and keeping in mind the end goal to fit in better. Be that as it may, in doing as such, you're denying the YOU inside. Adjusting the necessities of the genuine you and desires of others is an individual interest.
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